I typically just delete them, after shaking my head. If they suggest you've got to send them back to the original sender to tell them you love them, I may take the time to reply, but I never forward such. Anything I do forward, jokes or other meaningful info, I delete all e-mail addresses attached before forwarding.
Dependent upon content, sometimes I will advise the sender that the information is erroneous. Sometimes I take the same approach Brian did, it's totally dependent upon whether the e-mail is something that's going to cause someone harm. Such as e-mail hoaxes suggesting you remove files from your computer that are harmless operating system files. As Brian did, I generally back it up with links to fact, supporting my claims that the original information was in error.
If the original sender takes offense, then I simply tell them they should do their homework before sending such goodies out. And, find some satisfaction in knowing that I have spared several folks on that mailing list the trouble incurred in such matters.
As has been suggested above, one should never send mass mailings, including everyone's e-mail address. Set up a dummy account to send to yourself, address it to "Friends", "Special Friends", "Folks I care about", "My Joke Mail List" or something, then load everyone you want to send to in BCC. If it's a select bunch of friends that you share everything with, setting up a mail group to send is fine, but I often find that we "all", as individuals, have different things that are kind of iffy in our respective lives, and that method will eventually cause you to step on someone's toes. Much easier to set them up in a folder, and include them individually in BCC than risk hurting a friend's feelings.
I also make a point of explaining these methods of mailing occasionally to those who have a bad habit of forwarding countless addresses, although it usually goes unheeded! And, I keep all of my security software up to date, knowing I'm on those folks mailing list! /o:?
I consult Snopes.com on all suspicious chain-letter e-mails. If it is a hoax/urban legend, I forward the Snopes explanation page to EVERYONE on the receiving list... in the hope that it may stop someone from forwarding it on.
Some are sort of cute; however, as the one I received today:
Subject: Drivers License
Check your Driver's License
I definitely removed mine. I suggest you all do the same. Now you can see anyone's Driver's License on the Internet, picture and all!
Thanks Homeland Security! Go to the web site, and check it out.
It's unbelievable!!! Just enter your name, city and state to see if yours is on file.
After your license comes on the screen, click the box marked "Please Remove." This will remove it from public viewing, but not from law enforcement. Please notify all your friends so they can protect
themselves too.
Believe me they will thank you for it.
http://www.license.shorturl.com/
I agree with the snopes post with one exception. Depending on what the material is I usually just reply to the sender and give them the option to send out a retraction. If the subject is something rather serious, like the ones that tell you to delete "virus" files off your computer, I will reply to all in the hopes that no one deletes critical files from their computer.
As mentioned in another post, I think most of the people sending out chain letters (like my daughter) are naive to the fallacies on the net and think they are doing everyone a favor. I do try to educate people like that, even when something comes from a trusted source you should always verify anything you are going to send out; use your head and don't perpetuate false information. If it's too good to be true, it probably isn't.
As for the people that send out the cutesy chainmails I simply let them know I don't want those types of email and ask them not to send them anymore. If they continue I simply delete them without reading knowing in my heart that person cares about me and is simply sharing in the way they think most appropriate. That might now always be true but it keeps me from getting angry at people I care about.
I immediately mark any e-mails I receive as spam. Everyone I care about receiving e-mail from knows my stance on this, and anyone else, if they're dumb enough to go along with it, well, they're not worth the space in my inbox.
Guess that keeps your inbox empty. I suspect that you don't mark ALL your e-mails as spam. Glad I'm not in some of ya'lls address books. Those e-mails that state something is true-I check out at Snopes or Smoking Gun. Those that are bunk I trash, the others I forward to a few select people in my address book. For those e-mails that are wishing me a blessed day, sending me a prayer, telling me how much they care for me-of course I read them and send them back to whomever sent them to me plus I send them to others that I want to say the same thing to them. In these busy days where we are seperated by thousands of miles, forwarding a cute e-mail that says you are missed and loved is better hitting the delete button, in my book anyway!!
Some times people ask me if I have read the chain mail they sent me. I never read the mail but I keep them in a smart folder just in case I they ask me too. Some times when the mail is really, really stupid like a hoax (aka. mail that states that MS is bad and will charge for msn so we have to unite as users) I reply them explaining them that everything is just a lie. There are friends of mine who mail me really afraid of what will happen with msn service.
1. I inform friends I don't do chains. They rarely violate
2. I don't snopes anymore. I use to and inform them about the status but I don't care to help them along that way anymore. I classify them as new and unlearned in the ways of the internet. If it continues, I delete everything they send, unread
If it is an obvious or old chain letter that is some kind of hoax, I'll find a good website that exposes the email for what it is, then send a link to that website back to the sender of the email. Usually doing a web search for a particular phrase in the email, or even the subject will return good results.
For chain emails that are just "feel good" emails, I usually just delete them without reading it.
JC
When I realize that someone (against my stated wishes) sends me a chain letter, I immediately delete it. I often send them a reminder that I do NOT forward any religious or any other tyoe of chain letter. all of my contacts have asked for this consideration. If a friend wants to send me a friendship letter & tell me that it is not necessary to forward it, unless I chose to, that is a different situation.
I read it & send it back to the sender. No one else get's it. so as for as they know I sent it off to others to for they know I use the bcc on my emails. They are good meaning friends & I want to keep it that way.
Chain letters are only one step above spam as far as unwanted mail and I are concerned. I like to think that my friends are mature, intelligent adults but some of them still forward this crap to me.
Make it stop! Make it stop!
Sometimes I will politely remind them to leave me off the chain mail list but I had one person go all crazy and get upset about it. So mostly I just see that "forward to x people" line and hit the delete button as fast as humanly possible.
And guess what? No fire and brimstone, bad luck of any of that. Why people fall for that malarkey is beyond me.
I can't agree with you more! Most of my friends are all over the age of thirty, and I get shocked when I get insane chain letters from them! I was in shock yesterday when I got a "send this back" type one from a forty-plus year old, very intelligent friend yesterday.
I check my mail and as soon as I see what it is, if it's a chain letter, it goes in the trash.
I'm equally as shocked that I almost got into a fight with a friend whom I wrote to asked her to not send me those types of E-mails and also told her that it's tacky to put all people's names in the "TO" section.
I think that being online for about 15 years has shown me that, frighteningly, a lot of people don't really have much tact.
I reply to the sender with info I have on chainletters, ask them not to send any to me again, this works for most of them but with a few I have to resort to deleting them unread!
Cheers,
Rich
If it is blatant advertising, ie. variations on spelling of Viagra, I list it as spam (which doesn't help a bit). I have several e-mail acquaintances across the country and they often send me humor or other chain mail thoughts (mostly political or religious). Most of the humor I save, a lot I forward to others in the chain, some I delete. I would never label something from an acquaintant spam, I would consider it insulting.
One day I will make a cd of all the humor I have received and send copies to all those in the chain.
I have also thought about saving all the e-mail addresses on the chain mail in a separate file. Since I am retired it wouldn't be onerous but I'm so busy answering the chain mail I probably won't get around to it until I'm bed ridden.
There are whole lot of curmudgeons out there!
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