Spyware, viruses, & security : Is he cheating???
Sit down and talk
by robnan - 10/4/06 3:21 AM In reply to: my paranioa by ozicanYou two should sit down and sort it out, mano a mano (well, not quite).
It's a vicious circle. You distrust him because he clears his tracks because he distrusts you... It could go on forever.
Just sit down and talk about it
Wishing you the best (and offering a few insights)
by azizi26 - 10/2/06 8:58 AM In reply to: Straight answer to a straight question by pepenavarroVery nice thought, pepenavarro. Unfortunately, all to often these bulletin board forums get side-tracked with personal agendas from well intentioned folks.
If I might be forgiven to add a bit of levity, it's too bad our pundits weren't there to coach the Hewlett Packard Board of Directors when they started spying on one-another as well as CNET and WSJ reporters. However the analogy is worth considering - as the saying goes, "with great power comes great responsibility." HP's Patricia Dunn and company weren't prepared to handle the data findings. You're assuming your hubby's suspicious activity could be cheating - but what if it's worse? Not to also be preachy, but be prepared that digging into dark areas won't necessarily uncover what you assumed was the worst case scenario.
Back to the serious matter, yes, either a keyboard logger or packet sniffer on your router will give you the answers. Of course, when a person begins a pattern of unusual behavior of secrecy to hide their tracks (mysteriously begins purging files, using an anonymizer to hide their Internet packets and site visits, encryping seemingly non-essential files, EMAILs, etc), you can smell the smoke if not see the fire.
Best wishes to you - I'm sure we're all saddened with your difficult situation.
Michael
Improper use of forum.
by chuck_moss - 10/2/06 3:07 PM In reply to: Straight answer to a straight question by pepenavarro1) This is not what the forum is to be used for.
2) I do not believe any answers to her personal
problems are coming from any one that is qualified.
3)I am shocked that any one would even want to spill their personal problems on a public forum.
4)If you have been cheated on before, you are probably going to be suspicious of everyone, seek help from a professional.
5)Helping someone do this is like ratting.
Cheating Husband???
by plcard - 10/2/06 4:17 AM In reply to: Is he cheating??? by ozicanWell, I am a male whose wife cheated on him. So, you can take back that nasty statement about MEN.
What you are asking is can I see what he is writing on his laptop. There are programs you can get that will give you every key stroke he hits and he can't see it. Just search CNet and I'm sure one will be there.
On the other side, have you considered asking him? Telling him of your suspicions, and why you feel the way you do. Just because someone is on the computer, does not necessarily mean they are cheating.
I trust you are not in a cheating mode yourself. It seems the one who does most of the hollering about cheating ... is doing so themselves.... probably not in your case, but just make sure your suspicions are real and not a figment of your imagination.
Spy application
by vicktor - 10/2/06 4:30 AM In reply to: Is he cheating??? by ozicanWell, non of my business, but a person usually will cheat because he/she is dissatisfied with their partner. So think about that first, maybe one of you is ugly and I don't mean just physically. Anyway, go here and you can get a program that will help, hope it doesn't end in a murder or divorce.
http://www.e-spy-software.com/
Good luck
Reply to spy application!
by SFAQL - 10/2/06 5:23 AM In reply to: Spy application by vicktorHi Vicktor, A serious question.
If Ozican did download and install e-spy,woudn't her husband,computer savvy as he seems to be,wake up in a flash and investigate the programme straight away?
Just a thought!
DOUG.
Cheating
by cbeckner80 - 10/2/06 5:38 AM In reply to: Reply to spy application! by SFAQLNot only that, since he uses "Go Back" on a regular basies, would not that get rid of the spy ware when he does "go back"?
reply to serious question
by vicktor - 10/2/06 8:25 AM In reply to: Reply to spy application! by SFAQLI don't know what would happen. If you/I could save someone yelling for help for whatever reason hanging over a cliff edge, etc, wouldn't you try to give them, or would you ask the what the h*** are you doing hanging over a cliff edge!?< :>)) She who asked has to handle the situation, not us to judge. You don't like being robbed, and neither does she. Besides what if there are children in the family; would you as a son or daughter, what would you think of your father if you knew he was effectively killing love and respect of your mother and family. Anyway..hope for the best. prepare for the worst!!
Beware: I googled this link you provided and both...
by DUKESofHAZZARD - 10/4/06 2:23 AM In reply to: Spy application by vicktormy Mozilla FF addons TrustWatch and SiteAdvisor warned me against viewing & downloading from this site. Maybe alot of cheating husbands have given this site low reviews on SiteAdvisor and TrustWatch
Reply to: Beware: I googled this link you provided and both.
by SFAQL - 10/4/06 3:02 AM In reply to: Beware: I googled this link you provided and both... by DUKESofHAZZARDNo cheating husbands have given this site bad reviews that I can see. This is a "RED X" warning from McAfee site advisor from their own tests on this site.Check out SITE ADVISOR and read their report.I would avoid this site like the plague,because I want to surf instead of running scans all the time.
Doug.
(NT) It's about trust, not playing kiddy games with each oth
by robnan - 10/4/06 7:53 AM In reply to: Beware: I googled this link you provided and both... by DUKESofHAZZARDReply
by drfrank - 10/2/06 4:34 AM In reply to: Is he cheating??? by ozicanGet a new husband
cheating
by dlnelson - 10/2/06 6:09 AM In reply to: Reply by drfrankI had a program to check on my childrenīs chat sessions, but I never got around to installing it, in part because I would also need another program to translate what they write into plain English (or, in my case, Portuguese). I donīt remember the name of the program right now, but it probably leaves tracks anyway.
My wife does not use the computer. She just goes next door to the bar. And she NEVER tells the truth, especially after she has had a few.
Too Late Already
by phulbelly - 10/2/06 5:18 AM In reply to: Is he cheating??? by ozicanIf you're on the "other side of the world" and your "relationship" with this new person that replaced your last cheater is already suspect then
IT'S ALREADY TOO LATE !!!
No relationship will do well with constant threats (real or percieved) to it's security. Sounds like your practicing but have NOT found the right partner.
Why do you pick potential cheaters for partners ? Ya need to ask yourself that ?
Good Luck !
how to
by nosfy - 10/2/06 6:02 AM In reply to: Is he cheating??? by ozicansearch for a keylogger(soft that records every keystroke), install and "accept" the soft in your firewall/virus interface...most of this soft as "hide" feature
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